Have you ever tried to make a puzzle piece fit where it doesn’t belong? Everything about that puzzle piece looks like it should go in that opening, it may even slid into the other puzzle piece. But there is a space that is open, why is it open? Because it isn’t the correct piece. Forcing the puzzle pieces to fit together doesn’t change the fact that there is still something missing, the real piece. Are you trying to force a relationship because some things are lining up? But you know in your heart that something just isn’t quite right. Listen to the Holy Spirit and allow Him to lead you.
God cares about who you marry, if He didn’t He would not have made such a big deal out of taking Eve from the side of Adam Genesis 2:21. What was God doing? I believe the message was loud and clear, the person that God has for you is supposed to be as if they were a part of your very own body. No different than that puzzle piece, you two fit. “The two shall become one flesh” (Genesis 2:24), that is deeper than just coming together and knowing one another. Two people coming together is on a spiritual, emotional, relational, psychological, and spiritual level.
God looked at Adam and saw something that he didn’t even know. God saw that it was not good for him to be alone. Adam didn’t know that he was alone, he thought that his life was complete. Adam was happy in fellowship with God, he was busy naming the animals and working. God decided it was time and God will do the same for you. Let God complete your puzzle, and you won’t be alone for much longer.