My beloved friends, let us continue to love each other since love comes from God. Everyone who loves is born of God and experiences a relationship with God. The person who refuses to love doesn’t know the first thing about God, because God is love—so you can’t know him if you don’t love. This is how God showed his love for us: God sent his only Son into the world so we might live through him. This is the kind of love we are talking about—not that we once upon a time loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to clear away our sins and the damage they’ve done to our relationship with God.
My dear, dear friends, if God loved us like this, we certainly ought to love each other. No one has seen God, ever. But if we love one another, God dwells deeply within us, and his love becomes complete in us—perfect love!
This is how we know we’re living steadily and deeply in him, and he in us: He’s given us life from his life, from his very own Spirit. Also, we’ve seen for ourselves and continue to state openly that the Father sent his Son as Savior of the world. Everyone who confesses that Jesus is God’s Son participates continuously in an intimate relationship with God. We know it so well, we’ve embraced it heart and soul; this love that comes from God.
To Love, to Be Loved
God is love. When we take up permanent residence in a life of love, we live in God and God lives in us. This way, love has the run of the house, becomes at home and matures in us, so that we’re free of worry on Judgment Day—our standing in the world is identical with Christ’s. There is no room in love for fear. Well-formed love banishes fear. Since fear is crippling, a fearful life—fear of death, fear of judgment—is one not yet fully formed in love.
I John 4:7 -18
Beloved, these scriptures have resonated in my life more than ever lately. Although I have never given birth to any children biologically, I have godsons and daughters that I love so dearly, that at time I lose sight of this fact. I have always enjoyed the honor of being called god mother by these little darlings, whose smiles and every little pronouncement, “I love you godmother”, just made me melt. The love that I have for each of them had such power over me, that I found myself getting out of my bed in the middle of the night, driving in the snow because one of them had summonned me,” I want my God Mother!” Any one who knows me is probably saying (for me to get out at night driving in itself).. it’s like it is not going to happen! But to hear of me going out into the dark night when there is snow involved, people would not recognize me, and they would probably ask, Betty Who?
What does all this have to do with God is Love?
Lately, beloved, these little darlings are now teens and young adults, going through growing pains and the real life deal. We knew that it was always the possibility that life would present them with some challenges, but for some reason, you just do not seem to engage how impactful it can be on you. I was amazed that these little of bundles of joy, can become so deviant, can become so unfit for society that it leaves you scratching your head saying “They did what?”.
So I had to pull out my word and bring to my remembering that I was really acting ugly too, when God gave His only begotten Son in response for His love for me. So beloved, I had to encourage mother and myself, to let us move pass the actions of our children, and to remember that the Father has sent His Son to save them too.
Therefore, let our first response be that of love and concern, and let us be longsuffering as our Heavenly Father is toward us. When they say “What are we to do about the behavior?”, I say, let us love the children and hate the sin. Let us set the boundaries and let them know that we refuse to allow the devil to kill, steal, and destroy them. We will seek godly counsel from God’s word and from God Himself and those He sent to help us. But we will let our beloved know, that we will not give up on them and we will try our best to convince them to not to give up on themselves.
Beloved, we decided to move pass the fear by not allowing the behaviors that were being put on display to have all the power. But we will show them by our love them, by the love God has imparted in our hearts, by insisting that Satan’s stronghold must be lose in Jesus Name. We will ensure that our children will have enough information about what they are choosing…when they wanted to hang out with Satan and do his deeds. And we will do this by Proverbs 3: 5, 6. By trusting in the Lord with all our hearts and by not leaning to our own understanding, but by acknowledging the Lord in this matter through prayer and supplication, and listening to hear His directions; and applying to the circumstances as God directs our path.
Beloved, we must never withdraw our love from our children when they appear to be unlovable. Perhaps, this is when they need our love the most. But understand this clearly, it does not mean that you have to agree with the behavior or accept it. It just means that the love of God has constrained us to do it the way He did it for us; By never giving up on our children & giving them over to the devil. Fight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! For it is by His loving kindness thatHe has drawn us away from our practicing sins. For we all have sinned and come short of the Glory of God.
Sister Betty
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